Cheating to most individuals is an act of betrayal whereby a person who is in a closed relationship becomes sexually involved with another person, a third party.
Is that definition entirely correct?
Another school of thought would like to classify 'Cheating' under three forms...[continue]
The 'Mind' Cheating
This happens a lot for some of us, that strong desire you get when you watch that other guy (who's not your partner) with the nice hair cut, great body and charisma or that feeling you get when you watch from a distance, that other girl who's got a nice rack, long hair, pretty eyes, flawless skin... You know what I'm talking about :)
The 'Electronic' Cheating
Staring lustfully at the pic of that hot girl on say, facebook or Instagram, 'liking' it, sending her erotic IMs and pictures, calling your ex or texting them, deleting that conversation history on Facebook or WhatsApp so your spouse doesn't get to see it...
I know by now, some of y'all are like 'give me a break! '
Then, the Physical/Sexual Involvement
The first two forms may or may not lead to this, infact some folks see this as the 'actual' cheating and nothing else...When you have sex with the person who's not your partner... oops!
Considering and based on these 3 definitions most of us have cheated... lol, and some of us disagree.
In my opinion the key to a long lasting, 'faithful' relationship is finding sufficiency, adequacy and satisfaction in all that your partner is; physically, emotionally and otherwise, also constantly reminding yourself of what got you drawn to him/her in the first place.
Posted by Vanessa.
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